A man who is left to chose between his family and soon to be wife is asking for help following her insane demand.
According to the man,his wife told him that his family can’t come to their wedding because her parents can’t be there due to the long flight which is not good for their health.
She’s from country X and I’m from country Y. Together we live in Y but plan to move to her home country soon and stay there for good. We’re planning a super small wedding, just my parents, maid of honor (her sister) and best man. Her parents can’t come because it’s a long flight from X to Y and their health does not make long flights possible.
I know that friends and other family members of mine want to swing by and congratulate us in front of the court house. It’s a normal thing to do in country Y. They’re not going to join us for dinner afterwards.
Now my fiancée wants me to tell my friends and family to not show up outside the court house because her parents can’t be there. I think it’s rude to tell my friends and family not to show up. What do I do?